How To Make a Man Love You
20 Sure-Fire Ways To Find
Romance and True Love
You have the power to make a man love you
You have the power
to make a man love you
, even if you aren't the prettiest, richest or smartest woman. He says he's just not that into you. Now you'll find out what he really means. Find out if you are you doing something that turns a man off. Be open to change and try these twenty tips about how to make a man love you
- To Make a Man Love You Be His Friend
- To Make a Man Love You Give Him Time
- Make a Man Love You by Knowing What You Want From Him
- To Make a Man Love You Take Care of Yourself
- To Make a Man Love You Listen More and Talk Less
- Make a Man Love You by Playing Hard To Get
- Make a Man Love You by Looking Good For Him
- Make a Man Love You by Building Trust
- Choose a Man Who Is Capable of Love
- Make a Man Love You by Knowing What You Want
- Make a Man Love You by Building a Good Life
- To Make a Man Love You Be True To Him
- To Make a Man Love You Be a Good Person
- To Make a Man Love You Untie the Apron Strings
- To Make a Man Love You Make More Time for Him
- Make a Man Love You by Losing Your Bad Attitude
- Make a Man Love You by Getting Over Your Ex
- Make a Man Love You by Learning To Love Yourself
- If You Want a Man to Love You, Don't Talk About Marriage
- Choose a Man Who Deserves Your Love
To Make a Man Love You Be His Friend
To make a man love you, be his friend
. Do you know how to be just friends? Most people use dating as a chance to get to know each other. They spend time hanging out, sharing each otherís interests, doing each other little favors, admiring their accomplishments, planning activities together: All this builds a strong friendship with a man. The time comes when you know you can rely on each other, when you reach the stage of warm and caring affection and when you value the time spent together. Then, when the man realizes he loves you, youíre ready to take the relationship to the next level.
To Make a Man Love You Give Him Time
Do you expect too much of a date?
Give a man more time to make him love you. This man is as uncertain as you are. Your man is holding back on love until you know each other better. Of course, the man is afraid of rejection, as we all are. Maybe he thinks youíre out of his league. Perhaps the man needs more encouragement to learn to love you. Youíll never know, if you donít give him a chance to know you better.
Make a Man Love You by Knowing What You Want From Him
Make a man love you
To make a man love you
know what you want
by knowing what you want from him. Do you know what you really want in a man? Itís time to be selective about your perfect match. Make a list of all the important beliefs, lifestyle and aspirations you would like your man to have. Spirituality, children, job, money, ethics, background, family, interests, appearance, attentiveness and personality are all important. Donít go crazy over a ďbad boyĒ or a "bad girl" and then expect him or her to go to church with you every Sunday. If a man knows you accept him and love him for himself, a man is more likely to love you.
To Make a Man Love You Take Care of Yourself
Do you take care of yourself?
A man wants you to look after yourself, just as he wants you to look after him. Even in this new millennium, everyone wants someone to look after them. If you neglect yourself, can a man expect you to look after him? Remember your health, your happiness and your life agenda are important. Build a cocoon of comfort and safety in your life, where thereís room for the right person. Value yourself, and others will value you, too.
To Make a Man Love You Listen More and Talk Less
Do you talk too much on a date?
To make a man love you
Listen more and talk less
A man will love you if you listen to him for a change. Maybe you could run circles around the fast-talking auctioneer in the television commercial. Many women donít realize how shallow and boring their gossip seems to a man. You probably started repeating yourself after the first hour of conversation, and youíre getting boring, too. Take your turn listening to others. You are likely to learn a great deal. Keep your cell phone turned off, so you can practice being quiet. Let yourself be calm and still. It will attract people to you. The gentle art of listening will make you a better date.
Make a Man Love You by Playing Hard To Get
Do you give it up too easily?
Playing hard to get
It's possible that the man you want to love you is not looking for a relationship that lasts beyond tonight. No matter how terrific they are or how enamored you are, with these players old habits die hard. The two of you have no basis for an enduring relationship, and the man is already looking for the next roll in the hay.
Make a Man Love You by Looking Good For Him
Are you good-looking?
You probably arenít movie star material, because few of us are. And itís likely you donít have perfect teeth, skin or hair, because most of us donít. But are you well-groomed? Thatís something thatís under your control. Are you nicely dressed, and do you smell good? Your warm, inviting smile immediately moves you two points closer to a 10. Your personality, your confidence and your ability to make them feel good about themselves will go a long way to creating the aura of beauty. To love you, a man wants to feel that you look good.
Make a Man Love You by Building Trust
Do you trust your date?
Make a man love you
by building trust
Itís good to steer away from dates when your instincts tell you they canít be trusted. But if itís you yourself who has a fear of intimacy, whoís reluctant to put your trust in any person, then itís time to rebuild your inner confidence before you reach out for a relationship. You can make a man love you by building trust.
Choose a Man Who Is Capable of Love
Do you want what you canít have?
You can't make every man just fall in love with you. Maybe your ideal date is a movie star look-alike with styled hair, designer suits and a luxury car. Do you have your heart set on a number 10, no matter whatís underneath the window dressing? Because your mind is made up, you reject everyone else. Consider modifying your expectations. Dates who arenít flashy or well-off can be dates who are capable of love and caring.
Make a Man Love You by Knowing What You Want
Do you change your mind all the time?
Are you indecisive about dating? Look deep into your heart for your best intentions. Be less impulsive about dating. Do you need to make every man in the world love you? Set a goal and stick to it. The next person who comes along might not work out, but the person standing right in front of you could be your heartís desire.
Make a Man Love You by Building a Good Life
You can make a man love you
by showing him the good life you have to share. Are you bringing anything to the table in this relationship? Perhaps your life is nothing to brag about. You havenít built your own world of career, skills, friends and hobbies. You need to carve out a place for yourself in the real world, so that you are more desirable as a date. Do you have somewhere to live on your own, a job, a circle of friends, a car? Are you self-sufficient? All this helps make a man love you.
Make a Man Love You by Being True To Him
Do you cheat and lie?
Has your man caught you lying about your past, your job, and what you did last night. Your date is thinking, ďIf you lie now when I barely know you, what else will I find out about you if I look harder?Ē You can make a man love you if he knows you are true to him. Clean up your act and you wonít be trapped into lies. Are you faithful? Being true to your friends, and honest in your dating relationship will keep a man around longer. If youíre running around behind his back, bad-mouthing him to your friends, betraying the other people you date, why would he want to date you? Your reputation is leaving a bad taste in everyoneís mouth.
To Make a Man Love You Be a Good Person
Do you have strong spiritual values?
Even if your dates donít care a fig about religion, they want to hang with a person who is better than the rest. Your ethics, your sense of right and wrong, your belief in justice and your values are the measure of who you are. Your date is paying attention. A man can more easily fall in love with you if you are a good person.
To Make a Man Love You Untie the Apron Strings
Do you have kids?
To make a man love you, untie the apron strings. Itís possible that you expect your date to love your children from the get-go, even though you are practically strangers. If your dating goal is to find a father for your children, you will alienate many dates. Can you separate your life from the children? Can you make time for another adult and time for grown-up activities? Develop interests for yourself other than the children, so that a man can meet the person you are, rather than the parent.
To Make a Man Love You, Make More Time for Him
Do you work too much?
Do you even have time to date? To make your man love you, make more time for him in your life. Have the demands of your job poisoned your private life? Do you bring your cell phone, your pager, your Blackberry, your office agenda to the dating scene? Can you go the entire evening without checking your email? Is your mind cluttered with to-do lists? Is your conversation centered on what the boss said, what your co-workers did and how your work played out? Make room for dating and men in your life by compartmentalizing your interests. Keep one box for your take-charge job, and a separate box for your fun-filled personal life. When you date, give yourself fully to the moment.
Make a Man Love You by Losing Your Bad Attitude
Do you have a bad attitude?
To make a man love you, have a better attitude about things. Do you think that everyone is out to get you? Do you dislike the people in your life? Does everything always going wrong? Do you put the blame on other people? Are you the pessimist who expects the worst of everyone? Do you criticize your friends and your enemies? Is your language vulgar? If you could listen to your thoughts for an hour, would you like yourself? No! Well, your man doesnít like it either. Your attitude is a real downer, and no date enjoys that. Take the high road instead. Practice "positivity," the art of looking at the bright side of life. Give your issues a rest. Find the good in people whenever you can. Don't let your bad attitude spoil the date. No man loves negativity. No man wants to be part of a negative world.
Make a Man Love You by Getting Over Your Ex
You can make a man love you
by getting over your past relationships. Do you talk about your ex too much? Perhaps you have unresolved issues with your ex. News flash, folks! Itís never going to get better until you get over it. You ex moved on and you should, too. Bury the hatchet. Let bygones be bygones. As a first step, resolve not to talk or think about your ex for an hour. That will be a pretty peaceful hour, wonít it? Youíve been wronged, or maybe you wronged each other, but get rid of that baggage. Put all your resentment, blame and hurt into a paper bag and then burn the bag in the fireplace. Thereís a bright new world full of romance waiting for you when youíre ready to move forward.
Make a Man Love You by Learning To Love Yourself
Do you come across as desperate?
If youíve been disappointed in the dating game, are you convinced there is something inherently unlovable about you? Do you say things like: "Who would want me anyway? I'm sure I'm going to wind up alone." If you think you canít make a man love you, it wonít happen. Revise your self-talk by telling yourself, ďIím such a cool, happy person that Iím bound to find love.Ē Which, by the way, is really the truth. You can make a man love you when you learn to love yourself.
If You Want a Man to Love You, Don't Talk About Marriage
Do you keep bringing up the M word
? Get a man to love you first, before you talk about marriage. Our biology drives us to create monogamous relationships for the purpose of reproduction. Mother Nature wants to see the next generation of the human species. But our mindset can overturn our biology. The man you met yesterday doesnít want to hear about marriage and children. After you have one drink together, do you ask your date how many kids he wants? Your date probably wants to talk about the current activities, not nuptials. The ticking of your biological clock might be too noisy for your man.
Choose a Man Who Deserves Your Love
Are you are too good for your date?
Well, of course you are! It happens all the time. Enthusiastic, loving, intelligent woman meets slacker loser. But donít judge your dates at first sight. It is easier to make a man love you if you choose a man who deserves your love. Consider for a moment that his good qualities might be quite different from yours. He may bring to the relationship the very things you yourself lack. With these attributes, your date could be your perfect complement, the piece that completes the jigsaw puzzle. By making superficial snap judgments, youíll miss out on the best life has to offer, a true abiding romance with your soul mate.
I hope life brings you much success.
I wish you a very happy day.
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